Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Getting over you..
Funny the songs we use to get over people.. here we go. In the vain of the stages of grief or something.. (This is more of my younger self.. but I thought it was funny what I've used to "get over people").

Stage 1: Denial.
The denial here is that she doesn't mean anything to me and that it's lighthearted enough because.. I'm in denial that I don't like her all that much.

Song: "You're Not the 1" - The Grouch
Honorable Mention: "Big Pimpin'" Jay-Z

Stage 2: Anger.
I realize that I have deeper rooted feelings for her. I realize that there was an opportunity that something could've happened. I realize that I'm tired of her bullshit games.

Song: "Sic Wit Tis" - Mac Mall
Honorable Mention: "Your Gyrlfriend" - Kurupt

Stage 3: Bargaining
I realize that I'm less angry at her than I am at the situation. I sulk sulk sulk thinking that I have control of the situation. Not her. I pretend I have control. I pretend that I'm leaving her behind. I pretend that it's better for her.. and me.

Song: "Do What I Gotta Do" - Ralph Tresvant

Stage 4: Depression
I realize that all I can do is sulk. I realize that I'll be single forever. I realize that all this sadness just makes me respond with negativity. I am spiteful.

Song: "Superman" - Eminem

Stage 5: Acceptance
I realize that.. FUCK IT.. life is good. I realize that the sulking from the days before was just all silly. What's the best thing to do? Start the cycle over again.. find someone to crush on.

Song? No song.
MOVIE: "SWINGERS"

"I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone's *really* hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know, the guy you're not sure whether or not you like yet. You're not sure where he's coming from. Okay? You're a bad man. You're a bad man. You're a bad man, bad man."

- Trent

Ulam cooked @ 8:17 PM

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